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Every once in awhile I’m amazed by how many PR people, who’ve actually never had the experience of being a journalist, write “how-to” articles focused around what you should and should not do in interviews with journalists!
I am a card carrying member of the Internet Press Guild and the Online News Association. Having been a journalist/reporter online since 1996, I can tell you that journalists are people too. They’re just like us. They’re trying to do their job well, get paid and stay alive in what has become an increasingly competitive and low pay market.
The majority of journalists write because they love to write. They want to create good stories – they’re not out to get trap you in an interview or take things out of context. I’m speaking primarily in terms of major offline and online publications, not tabloids.
Journalists are not out to get you, they are out to get the story. The story includes your personality so the best thing you can do is be yourself. Don’t be a robot, be a real person. Stop listening to PR flaks who tell you that you have to ONLY talk about your brand or in polished soundbites.
Good content comes from good conversations, real conversations where you present the full picture of your life. Good reporters create amazing stories by making authentic connections with their interviewees.
When I was a full-time dot com journalist you would be amazed at how many CXO level interviews I did where it was heartening to find out the CEO or business leader had a life outside of just their job and their title. In fact, I always tried to share a little bit about my life (stay-at-home Mom wearing journalist cape by day and night between storytime, naps and Cheerios on the floor), and what that did is help my interviewees feel comfortable to share their real lives as well.
Putting the heart first in connecting with journalists who interview you will keep you in their hearts, and more importantly their contact Rolodex, much longer than if you simply choose to not interact with them on a real human level.
Oftentimes the most interesting part of a story comes from you and the journalist realizing you have more in common than just the story. What some PR flaks consider small talk is actually gem talk. These little beautiful gems that come through connecting on a real level with one another.
As a bonus, if you become a source of bigger insight than just your brand, it will help the journalist depend on you for other stories long-term.
Reporters are generous, smart, hard-working writers and their goal is to create valuable content, help them do that by being a valuable human first, and brand spokesperson second.
One of the things an author must avoid no matter how famous or unknown is the disease of “Don’ttheyknowwhoiamitis“.
The symptoms of this deadly and narcissistic disease include the following:
1. Author does not believe they need to continue doing outreach after their book has been out for six months, because everyone should already know who they are and desperately want the book.
2. Author does not think it’s necessary to register their profile on new niche sites that might elevate their visibility and help them reach out to a new community of folks.
3. Author says their online guru “manages all that web 2.0 stuff and they don’t need to keep track of it or know what is being posted.”
4. Author believes the term “online guru” really means something.
5. Author is too busy to thank any bloggers for covering their book.
6. Author doesn’t want to send out hand-signed copies for book giveaways because book give-aways are only for lessor authors.
7. Author spends time blogging snarky posts on their blog about how they are the smarter than everyone else.
8. Author never responds to comments on their own blog or even bothers to link to outside bloggers.
9. Author thinks the media, the blogosphere and the twitter denizens will follow them JUST BECAUSE.
10. Author believes book marketers who tell him/her it’s all about impressions, click-throughs and long copy – not about valuable content, elevating the discussion and empowering the vertical.
If you are felled by any of these symptoms, please make certain to address them immediately so they do not become a full-fledged online affliction.
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Blog carnivals started several years ago, and are still a great way to help promote your blog. Particularly if your blog is new, joining a blog carnival will help bring you some traffic and backlinks, and also helps you authentically promote other bloggers too.
A blog carnival as defined by BlogCarnival.com is “a collection of links pointing to blog posts around a specific topic. Usually a blog carnival will have many editions and every week a different blog will host it.”
Some of the very first carnivals included “Carnival of the Capitalists” which can be found here.
With over 31440 editions of 9114 carnivals and 259 new carnivals in the past 30 days, what are you waiting for?
Look through the full index of carnivals and pick one that you might want to be a part of. Also read the About page for more information on how the carnivals themselves work.
This is a great collection annotated and put together by Guy, you must read it! I particularly like the one on Marketers that’s at the top of the list, “Our PR firm says it can get Walt Mossberg
to review our product.” It’s not clear who is dumber: your PR firm for saying this or your marketers for believing it. Walt reviews about fifty products a year, so the odds are not good that yours will be one of them. Certainly, no PR firm can guarantee a review.”
No PR firm can ever guarantee coverage. When you are working with a PR firm either online or offline, there are no guarantees of coverage. If they are a good firm, the guarantee is that they will do everything they can to bring your product, book, CD to the awareness of the folks who hopefully will pick them up for coverage.
If you’re working with a pay-for-play PR firm, it’s different and I’m not a fan of those firms that guarantee coverage or pickup depending on the amount you pay for each slot.
I felt compelled to post about a blog post I just came across, because I think it gives a good idea of how some PR folks view bloggers.
I excerpted this statement from the post,” Not sharing all the details upfront about an upcoming campaign when inviting bloggers to participate is a very good thing.”
Read the whole post and see where you fall on bloggers, PR and how best to reach out to them. I think it’s never a good idea to start out with a mystery when engaging in a collaboration with anyone, but would love to hear your take on it too! Notice I use the word collaboration. Bloggers even if they are being paid to be “brand identity enthusiasts” still need to feel a part of team, and certainly are due the respect and transparency of anyone else on the team.







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